Someone 🧎‍♂️The Urgency of Longing: Why We Should "Run" Toward the People We Miss

We’ve all felt it—that sudden, sharp ache of missing someone. Perhaps it’s a friend you haven’t spoken to in years, a partner across the country, or a family member who feels worlds away. Usually, we sit with that feeling. We scroll through old photos, we think "I should call them," and then we let the busyness of life get in the way.

The quote by Shejoe Sam challenges that passivity:

"When you miss someone, run to find the someone."

The Power of "Running"

"Running" in this context isn't just about physical movement; it’s about emotional urgency. It’s the refusal to let pride, distance, or a busy schedule dictate your relationships. To "run" means:

• Prioritizing Connection: Recognizing that human bonds are more important than the tasks on your to-do list.

• Vulnerability: Admitting that you miss someone is an act of courage. It says, "You matter to me, and my life is less vibrant without you."

• Closing the Gap: Whether it’s a long-overdue plane ticket or a simple "Thinking of you" text, it’s about taking the shortest path back to that person.

Why We Hesitate

Why don't we always run? Often, it’s fear. We fear we might be overbearing, or we fear that the other person doesn't miss us back. But the twilight horizon in the image reminds us that time is fleeting. Just as the sun sets on every day, opportunities to connect don't last forever.

Living Without Regret

If you are missing someone today, let this be your sign. Don't just walk toward the idea of them—run. Pick up the phone. Send the letter. Drive the distance. Life is too short to leave "I miss you" unsaid or unacted upon. When the heart speaks, the feet should follow.